“Do unto others as you would have them do unto you”.  The Golden Rule. This is VERY powerful and if you are living a conscious life, it is very doable.    IF you were to stop for a moment and think back to your every action for one day, from when your eyes opened first thing that day to when you place your head on your pillow again that night, how did you “do unto others…?”   Really…think about it, this simple yet profound “law of...

“In-fatuation” is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then settles down. When it settles down you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. This is unconditional love. Unconditional love itself is what is left over when being “in-fatuated” has burned away.    

This is something we hear so much about yet for so many seems to elude us.   There are many examples of this but for now I will stick to the two that I have found to be the most shared that apply to “business/life balance”. “UNCONSCIOUS” is where we will start.   Over the years, listening to my clients and from what I have observed, some believe that balance is related to the speed with which we move through life. “Tyranny of the Urgent” was a...

“I do not need anyone else’s permission but my own”   Okay, story time…a looong time ago when I was married I had this beautiful red skirt suit and I felt like a million dollars in it.  I had just had our first daughter and had lost all of the baby weight (and then some) and we were going to my husband’s company holiday party.  I wanted him to be proud of the way I looked so I asked him, “Hun, how do I look?”.  Without even glancing over...

PEPSIP is an acronym I created from listening to people over the years, and I LOVE how it gets people to think differently. It stands for: Passionately  //  Emotionally  //  Physically  //  Spiritually  //  Intellectually  //  Philosophically   try this short exercise to bring some enlightenment to a particular relationship On a separate piece of paper, copy the following charts. Rate first for yourself {on a scale from 1 to 7}  1 means...

Through all of my lessons in this life — and the INCREDIBLE growth of learning about love, how to love and be love — comes the realization that if you do truly love this person (YOU) that goes through this incredible transformation, there is an element of a second chance that is taking place.  And with that comes an incredible dedication to your NEW self — to trust your decisions, and honor the courage it took to step out of the darkness into...